What is the relationship between sex or the cosmic orgasm and love or god?
Erotic goddess Georgette over at the delicious love and sex-celebrating community Bohocrush.com recently posed a pretty tricky question: "What is better: Love or Sex?"
Well, this seemingly harmless question actually touches the very deep waters of existence, so let's dive into it:
- Sex which is not the same as love is not real SEX - but just genital tension relief. (Mainly used to distract oneself.)
- Love which is not pure sex is not real LOVE - but just romantic illusion. (Often used to inflate our sense of selves, because it certainly feels very good for our egos, when somebody 'loves' us!)
REAL SEX however is dissolution of all physical boundaries; all distinctions between male and female simply vanish - which leads to an 'outer orgasm'. And REAL LOVE is dissolution of all personal and gender boundaries; all distinctions between male and female evaporate - this leads to an 'inner orgasm'.
Then, when the inner orgasm fuses with the outer orgasm so to speak, all dualities disappear and we are left with the undivided ONE! And of course: 'We', as we thought ourselves to be, don't exist anymore...
We could also say, love and sex conglomerates into god, as therapist and shaman Bradford Keeny cuts it right to the chase of the matter:
There is no sex-free god!
(Bradford Keeny)
In this ONE = G.O.D = G rand O rganizing D esign, there is no male, no female, no I, no you, no good, no bad, no left, no right, no sex and no love anymore...but simply the timeless, spaceless, eternal and infinite one which is nothing else but the...cosmic orgasm! Unfortunately, what we fear most (but at the same time long for most) is the very dissolution into this cosmic love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss. To gain more courage, see: Why is it so difficult to change our lives?
So, what's wrong with the question "What is better, sex or love?"
I indeed imply that the question is wrongly put - it's as if we ask what is better: Yin or Yang! Let's don't make the classic mistake of dualizing something when it's not necessary. The all-time classic which reminds us of that is The Great Way by Sengcan:
When love and hate are both absent everything becomes clear and undisguised. Make the smallest distinction, however, and heaven and earth are set infinitely apart.
(Sengcan)
Then again, Hugh Hefner, founder of Playboy once said:
Sex without love is still better than no sex at all...
(Hugh Hefner)
Finally, the complete melting with love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss is nothing else than the 'ultimate tantra'.
Photo (c) Shone Jen @ Bohocrush.com
(c)reated by h.r.fox @ ultrafeel.tv
Ultrafeel.tv wants to hear from you: Is there really no difference between love and sex? And are you courageous enough to dive into the cosmic love-sex-death-orgasm-bliss? Tell us what you feel. Pura Vida!
